Together as one

I know your life can go on without me, that you can be happy without me, that you can survive without me. But even if you turn me away, I will still choose to stay with you and be your sweetest stranger forever. -Unknown When this blog started I wasn’t sure when (if ever) I […]

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I won’t give up

Roundtable #39: Father’s Day Open Adoption Roundtable  This post is in response to the Open Adoption Roundtable discussion.  The forum asks to write to someone or some group in the adoption constellation. He was placed for adoption over seven years ago.  I was unaware the adoption took place until about three months ago.  My blog post (Murphy’s Law) discusses […]

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A proud Momma’s Boy on Mother’s Day!

When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child. ~Sophia Loren     If you aren’t aware of my story then you might not realize that I represent a class within a class in the world […]

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I will pray for us

I’m still not sure if I’m going to follow through with a recent post that I wrote. I want my voice to be heard and my story told, but in the end all I really want is the opportunity to meet my son. Every day lost is another day that I can’t get back. Yesterday the results […]

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My reality before reality

Before I get to the nitty-gritty I would like to share a little background information. I am 33 years old and a proud father of three beautiful girls. My oldest is my step daughter (even though, I despise the word step) and she just turned eleven years old! Her mother and I met in 2005 when she was only four […]

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Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong….or will it?

Murphy’s Law. According to Wikipedia Murphy’s law is an adage that is typically stated as: “Anything that can go wrong will go wrong”. Having lived my whole life with “Murphy” as my last name it was always easy for our family to chalk up any stroke of bad luck to Good ol “Murphy’s Law!” As […]

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